so what is the fault in our stars?
看了这部电影，我看见了即使面临死亡的威胁，还有屹立不倒的家庭，和那纯洁的爱。
男主角最后的那段留给hazel的几句话让我没办法忘怀。
After my PET scan lit up, I snuck into the ICU and saw her while she was unconscious. I just walked in behind a nurse with a badge and I got to sit next to her for like ten minutes before I got caught. I really thought she was going to die, too. It was brutal: the incessant mechanized haranguing of intensive care. She had this dark cancer water dripping out of her chest. Eyes closed. Intubated. But her hand was still her hand, still warm and the nails painted this almost black dark blue and I just held her hand and tried to imagine the world without us and for about one second I was a good enough person to hope she died so she would never know that I was going, too. But then I wanted more time so we could fall in love. I got my wish, I suppose. I left my scar.
She is so beautiful. You don’t get tired of looking at her. You never worry if she is smarter than you: You know she is. She is funny without ever being mean. I love her. I am so lucky to love her, Van Houten. You don’t get to choose if you get hurt in this world, old man, but you do have some say in who hurts you. I like my choices. I hope she likes hers.”
像是：
“The world is not a wish-granting factory.”
“Some tourists think Amsterdam is a city of sin, but in truth it is a city of freedom. And in freedom, most people find sin.”
“It's a metaphor, see: You put the killing thing right between your teeth, but you don't give it the power to do its killing.”
“Don't worry. Worry is useless. I worried anyway”
年级轻轻就得了重病，更本没的选择，女主角从十三岁就跟多种药物打交道，既然没的选择，那就继续活下去，和病魔抗争。
现在这个社会有很多人在现实生活中遇到一点点挫折就喊痛，就喊痛苦，觉得人生不公平。
试问这个世界哪有什么事都公平的，有些事情不公平，也不是我们可以选择的。如果你觉得这个世界对你不公平，那么多数是因为你还没有目睹更不公平的。只有学会以豁达的心接受和积极面对，心才会觉得平静。人生短短几十年，没有太多时间可以钻牛角尖。
生活中如果你连挚友，你都要心口不一，难道不觉得人活的很累吗？
生活品质完全是看自己的，快乐，痛苦也是看自己的。
如果你嘴上老说你没事，很快乐，其实你不是，那么你还是没有得到真正的快乐。
